The Personal Website of Mark W. Dawson

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Containing His Articles, Observations, Thoughts, Meanderings,
and some would say Wisdom (and some would say not).

The following are miscellaneous items I have written:

  • Addiction (Sep 2018) - My personal experience and perspective on Addiction.
  • Be the Better Person (Sep 2018) - What to do when "Shit Happens".
  • Cult of Youth (Sep 2018) - I was so much older then, I'm younger than that now.
  • Depression & Anxiety (Sep 2018) - My personal experience and perspective on Depression & Anxiety.
  • I Have a Big Mouth (Sep 2018) -A discussion on "Big" mouthing and "Small" mouthing.
  • Introverted (Sep 2018) - My personal experience and perspective on Introversion.
  • Lies and Beliefs (Sep 2018) - My thoughts on "Lies, Damn Lies, and Statistics" and "Just because you believe something to be true does not make it true".
  • May Peace Be Upon You (Sep 2018) - The short and long eulogies that I have written.
  • Mental Illness (Sep 2018) - My personal experience and perspective on Mental Illness.
  • Public Speaking (Sep 2018) - A guide to overcoming your fear of public speaking from someone who has accomplish this feat.
  • Pornography & Prostitution (Sep 2018) - If prostitution is the world's oldest profession, then pornography is the world's oldest occupation. These are my thoughts.
  • Sexual Harassment (Sep 2018) - A perspective on this subject.
  • Shame and Hypocrisy (Sep 2018) - A perspective on this subject.
  • Sins of the Fathers and of Youth (Sep 2018) - Who bears the responsibility and recriminations for the words and deeds of youth.
  • Social Media (Sep 2018) - Social media is ubiquitous in today’s society. Here are some of the personal problems I see on social media.
  • Statistics and Polling (Sep 2018) - A perspective on this subject.
  • Swearing (Sep 2018) - The consequences and repercussions of swearing.
  • The Failures of Public Education (Sep 2018) - A perspective on this subject.
  • The Troubles with TED Talks (Sep 2018) - The issues and concerns about TED Talks.

You may be wondering about my qualifications to pontificate on these subjects. I believe that I am qualified because I am a thinking human being. I utilize my knowledge and experience in life, as well as researching both the facts and opinions of others, including those with whom I may disagree. I then apply my reasoning and logical skills to reach an opinion. And it is just my opinion which I readily admit. I am also willing to admit that I may be wrong, and if I discover that I am wrong I am just as readily willing to change my opinion. Therefore, check-back every so often to determine if I have changed my opinion which can be determine by the date of the article.

The incandescent light bulb has often been described as a heat source that provides some light, given that a light bulb generates more heat than it does light. In today's public debates we often find the proponents of an issue providing a lot of heat and only a little light. These observations are meant to provide illumination (light) and not argumentation (heat).

Opponents in today's society often utilize the dialog and debate methodology of Demonize, Denigrate, and Disparage their opponent when discussing issues, policies, and personages. To demonize, denigrate, or disparage the messenger to avoid consideration of the message is not acceptable if the message has supporting evidence.

The only acceptable method of public discourse is disagreement - to be of different opinions. If you are in disagreement with someone you should be cognizant that people of good character can and often disagree with each other. The method of their disagreement is very important to achieve civil discourse. There are two ways you can disagree with someone; by criticizing their opinions or beliefs or critiquing their opinions or beliefs.

• Criticism - Disapproval expressed by pointing out faults or shortcomings.
• Critique - A serious examination and judgment of something.

Most people, and most commentators have forgotten the difference between Criticism and Critique. This has led to the hyper-partisanship in today's society. In a civil society critiquing a viewpoint or policy position should be encouraged. This will often allow for a fuller consideration of the issues, and perhaps a better viewpoint or policy position without invoking hyper-partisanship. We can expect that partisanship will often occur, as people of good character can and often disagree with each other. Criticizing a viewpoint or policy position will often lead to hostility, rancor, and enmity, which results in the breakdown of civil discourse and hyper-partisanship. It is fine to criticize someone for their bad or destructive behavior, but it is best to critique them for their opinions or words. We would all do better if we remember to critique someone, rather than criticize someone.

I would ask anyone who disagrees with what I have written here to please keep this disagreement civil. I am open to critique and will sometimes take criticism. I will always ignore demonization, denigration, and disparagement, or point out the vacuous nature or the character flaws of those that wish to silence the messenger rather than deal with the message.

Please remember that if you disagree with the messenger it is not acceptable to kill the messenger. You may kill the messenger, but the message will remain. If you have any comments, concerns, critiques, or suggestions I can be reached at mwd@profitpages.com. I will review reasoned and intellectual correspondence, and it is possible that I can change my mind, or at least update the contents of these articles. This is why these articles are dated. Whenever I make a change to these articles they will be re-dated. So check back and see if any articles have been updated (or perhaps I shall add articles).